Happiness is the Desire for Both Nothing & the Infinite

Our society tells us that we should have it all, and we should have it right now. At least, we should work to try to have it all as soon as possible. And if we don’t have it, this is precisely why we should feel unhappy. Much of our current worldly unhappiness comes from us feeling like we don’t have enough and therefore we are not enough.

However, our current desires aren’t never enough to make us happy, even if we have convinced ourselves that they should be. For example, if we believe that all we need to be happy is to buy a new car, get a promotion, get a loving partner, or anything else for that matter, it is likely that even if we fulfill our desires, we will only experience a temporary and fleeting sense of happiness.

In order to become happy forever, we need to take an infinitely different approach, as we don’t just want a little bit more. What we really desire is the infinite. In other words, our worldly desires will never be enough to make us happy. 

In these conditions, in order to become happy, we either need to strive for (1) nothing, aka give up on our worldly desires, or we should want the (2) infinite, aka God.

  1. Wanting nothing – This is the quickest and surest way to be happy, as by wanting nothing else we realize that we already have a lot, often enough to be happy now. Sure, the future is never guaranteed and we can always strive for more, even if we don’t necessarily need it to feel happy. So, we can always strive for more while wanting nothing, which means that we can achieve happiness without regrets or conditions, a true sense of happiness indeed.
  1. Wanting the infinite – When I say “the infinite,” the only place where we can find it is in God, as God is the infinite itself. Please note that I don’t specify which God I’m talking about here, as I leave it up to you to insert your beliefs here. However, in happiness studies, we know that people who believe in God, any God, are generally happier than those who don’t believe in anything.

Furthermore, wanting nothing plays into wanting the infinite, as all major world religions say that we need to disconnect ourselves from our worldly desires in order to find God, be it through prayer, meditation, or other means.

Overall, true happiness comes from pursuing God and being content with what we already have. By simply doing these two things, we will already experience an increase in our happiness.

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Roman Russo: Author of Optimal Happiness

Roman Russo wasn't always happy and struggled with his own negative emotions, anxieties, and depression, until one day he pledged to resolve this part of life, whatever it took. The journey took 6 years, but it was worth it. Today, Roman considers himself to be one of the happiest people alive, part of the 1% of the happiest elite, and he now teaches others a working and universal happiness formula to reach a similar goal. He offers his best advice on Optimal Happiness social media, newsletter, blog, and books, and teaches a complete and unconditional happiness formula in his online courses.

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“The problem is that of optimization,” states Roman Russo, author of Optimal Happiness: The Fastest & Surest Way To Reach Your Happiest Potential. There is plenty of advice on how to be happier or less sad, but no one is speaking about how to become the happiest we can be. And this is the difference that makes all the difference. By not looking at our maximum potential for happiness, we fall short of achieving it. After all, we all have hundreds of ideas on how to be happier or less sad, but most people still feel like they are not living their best lives. As such, Optimal Happiness explores the question of how to be the happiest we can be, regardless of who we are, where we are from, and what our life circumstances are. It proposes a complete and unconditional formula for happiness and explains how you too can become happy today and forever, inviting you to join the 1% happiness elite and become one of the happiest people alive.

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