Stop Blaming Amygdala for Your Unhappiness

The amygdala is a part of our brain that remembers all the bad things that have happened to us. For example, if we fall off a bicycle or are almost run over by a car, it is the amygdala that stores these negative memories, bringing them up in an effort to prevent future harm. Additionally, when we see negative news on TV or hear about them in our daily lives, it is the amygdala that stores this negatively framed information, once again trying to avoid future possible similar situations.

Amygdala & Negativity Bias

Amygdala & Its Effect on Happiness

It is not surprising that some people blame their amygdala as the primary reason for their unhappiness, stating that it is the primary reason why they cannot find long-lasting happiness. Yet, then, there are people like me who, despite having a healthy brain, are not affected by this negativity bias. Indeed, if you are a regular reader of my blog, then you know that I am an extremely positive person.

Some jokers may even suggest that I don’t have an amygdala and this is why I am so happy. To these people, I will reply that my brain is rather normal; it is average. It isn’t necessarily healthier or unhealthier than that of other people. This means that I have and use an amygdala as much as any other person.

Amygdala

Why We Should Stop Amygdala For Our Unhappiness

So, the next question becomes, why am I not affected by the negativity bias as much as everyone else?

In my experience, this is because many people:

  1. Don’t understand how their brains work at their peak capacity, especially in relation to their happiness.
  2. We tend to incorrectly assign guilt for our unhappiness to things like the amygdala.

Finding Long Lasting Happiness Despite Amygdala

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Roman Russo: Author of Optimal Happiness

Roman Russo wasn't always happy and struggled with his own negative emotions, anxieties, and depression, until one day he pledged to resolve this part of life, whatever it took. The journey took 6 years, but it was worth it. Today, Roman considers himself to be one of the happiest people alive, part of the 1% of the happiest elite, and he now teaches others a working and universal happiness formula to reach a similar goal. He offers his best advice on Optimal Happiness social media, newsletter, blog, and books, and teaches a complete and unconditional happiness formula in his online courses.

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