Don’t Say This, No Matter How Bad It Gets

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In my opinion, certain things should never be said. I don’t care how hurt, disrespected, or otherwise negative we become. There are things that just can’t be said, things like:

– I want to kill myself
– You should kill yourself
– He or she deserves this and much worst
– Then we go to war
– I now have reasons to use an atomic bomb

Some people just don’t seem to understand it or they don’t believe in limits or self-control. So they say things that they can’t take back. But what we say matters.

Some people hold on to the words for years, being haunted by them, and being destroyed by them. Later, they might see me and talk to me about what someone said, all along I’m thinking that in no situation no one should have said that.

People just don’t have the right. It’s not just something casual, like a walk in a park. We can’t just take it back. We can’t unsay it. 

Some people should learn to keep their mouths shut and walk away rather than say something faul.

The bottom line is, we need to think before we speak, and there are certain categories of things that should never be said, no matter what happens and how bad things get. Period.

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Roman Russo: Author of Optimal Happiness

Roman Russo wasn't always happy and struggled with his own negative emotions, anxieties, and depression, until one day he pledged to resolve this part of life, whatever it took. The journey took 6 years, but it was worth it. Today, Roman considers himself to be one of the happiest people alive, part of the 1% of the happiest elite, and he now teaches others a working and universal happiness formula to reach a similar goal. He offers his best advice on Optimal Happiness social media, newsletter, blog, and books, and teaches a complete and unconditional happiness formula in his online courses.

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“The problem is that of optimization,” states Roman Russo, author of Optimal Happiness: The Fastest & Surest Way To Reach Your Happiest Potential. There is plenty of advice on how to be happier or less sad, but no one is speaking about how to become the happiest we can be. And this is the difference that makes all the difference. By not looking at our maximum potential for happiness, we fall short of achieving it. After all, we all have hundreds of ideas on how to be happier or less sad, but most people still feel like they are not living their best lives. As such, Optimal Happiness explores the question of how to be the happiest we can be, regardless of who we are, where we are from, and what our life circumstances are. It proposes a complete and unconditional formula for happiness and explains how you too can become happy today and forever, inviting you to join the 1% happiness elite and become one of the happiest people alive.

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